What Grieving People Wish You Knew by Nancy Guthrie, Free for CAPC Members
Nancy Guthrie’s overwhelming message in What Grieving People Wish You Knew is to enter into the awkwardness and difficulty of loving grieving people.
Mixed Signals is Erin Straza’s weekly musing about marketing miscellany in advertising, branding, and messaging.
Traditionally speaking, the American Dream has referred to each citizen’s right to pursue ongoing and ever-growing economic success, usually defined by home ownership, a bulky retirement, and plenty of gadgets and toys. In sum, it’s materialism. It defines our mindset and rules our lifestyle. Materialism could be argued as the American Christian’s polytheism of choice: stuff + Jesus.
Marketers have tapped into our desires for bigger and better. Most marketing messages are aimed at our expectations for having it all and then having more.
But recent economic hardships have popped our American Dream bubbles, or at least that’s what Susan Lee and Jenny Liang tell us in their recent Co-Design article. The authors outline three ways in which the American Dream is being redefined:
As I see it, marketers will soon focus on these new tenets with messaging to connect with the consumer desire for experiences (I want access!), identity (I want fame!), and purpose (I want to make a difference!).
Broken down like that, I’m not sure these tenets are all that new. Consumers, defined by the consumer mentality, are still looking for a defining sense of self through the things we acquire, the things we achieve, and the actions we take. Doesn’t that sound familiar? Biblically speaking, basing our lives around everything we can arrange for ourselves is called sin. Sin deceives us into striving for life apart from God.
But St. Augustine reminds us that God made us for Himself, and the heart is never at rest until it finds rest in Him.
It’s great if the materialistic bent of the American Dream is being corrected. Christians should support that change and even lead the charge. But even the redefined version of the American Dream is no match for all that God is for us in Christ Jesus. No matter what messaging floods the marketplace, no amount of access, fame, or world change will put our hearts at rest.
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