The Kiddy Pool: What’s In A Name, Mrs. Carter?

“Our names tell us how we know ourselves, how we want to be known, and how close we’re willing to let others get to us.”

The Kiddy Pool: Will Smith And His Family Are Superheroes. What’s Your Family Metaphor?

“Our families define us, and we define them, mapping out a microcosm of our vision of the world, its paths, and its qualities.”

The Kiddy Pool: The Anniversary Trust Test

“All we can do each day is thank the Lord for new mercies, assess the trail, work through it, and take a deep breath together.”

The Kiddy Pool: Remembering ‘The Office’… and Our Vows

“But that scene with Pam and Jim reminded me of something more, too, of something that holds my marriage together in spite of my shortcomings.”

The Kiddy Pool: Re-reading Gatsby (Careless People and Beautiful Little Fools)

“The problem with reading the book at age 15 was that I, a privileged idealist looking to books for heroes, could not possibly fathom the losses and regrets that permeated the lives of Daisy and Gatsby.”

The Kiddy Pool: Who Cares for the Care Workers?

Who cares for the Care Workers? Who looks after the ones who look after everyone else?

The Kiddy Pool: A Walk in the Woods, with Children

We need to walk in the woods with our children to share in the joy, the peace of gazing upon creation and witnessing the hand of God.

Kiddy Pool: Noah’s Ark, or the Apocalypse for Kids

Teaching children about Noah’s Ark should neither gloss over the sin that caused the flood nor the rainbow of hope that appears at the end.

The Kiddy Pool: In Praise of Ordinary Children

Intelligence in our children, whether normal or advanced, is in no way a virtue.

The Kiddy Pool: Machiavelli and the Pruning Parent

Kiddy Pool: Calling All Parenting Experts!

Beyond Steubenville: Rape Culture and Complicity

Rape culture isn’t just a problem in Steubenville; it’s endemic to American culture. We all live in Steubenville.

The Kiddy Pool: The Monster in the Mirror

Oz: Goodness, Greatness, and Power

Sometimes the best way to view the man behind the curtain is through the lens of the Fall.

The Bachelor Finale: Loving on a Prayer

The Kiddy Pool: Happy Birthday, Dr. Seuss!

It’s that dismissal of children, that nostalgic lens for regarding childhood as a state free from the weight of real fears or anxieties, that bothers me.